Lady Gaga - Til It Happens To You (Official Music Video)

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A portion of proceeds from the sale of the song will be donated to organizations helping survivors of sexual assault.

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“Til It Happens To You” written by Diane Warren and Lady Gaga; performed by Lady Gaga, from the film THE HUNTING GROUND, available now: bit.ly/1E6XAFl
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_Wolkentanzer _
_Wolkentanzer _ 13 timmar sedan
I didn't know this song existed...
Darko Markovic
Darko Markovic 20 timmar sedan
Beautiful song on such delicate subject. You can feel anger and pain in her voice.
Calum Doyle
Calum Doyle Dag sedan
Why couldn’t I do anything? Because two different times two people touched me. The police wouldn’t do anything for that. I escaped before it went farther. It was also two people me and my mom trusted.
toxicwaste *
toxicwaste * 2 dagar sedan
You say I'm a liar till it happens to you. We were just friends. I was 13. Why is it my fault? He's way older why isn't he held responsible. Why don't you care until it happens to you? Why do you believe him when he has previous accusations? Why is it my fault when I said no.
Nika Horváthová
Nika Horváthová Dag sedan
@toxicwaste * I am so, so sorry. You're welcome. Sending you a lot of love ❤️
toxicwaste *
toxicwaste * Dag sedan
@Nika Horváthová thank you so much. I need this. Even my mom doesn't care
Nika Horváthová
Nika Horváthová Dag sedan
I believe you sweetie. And it's not your fault. No matter what you were wearing, whether you were smiling or flirting, where you were, it's not your fault. Stay strong ❤️
CuteCutie Cucca
CuteCutie Cucca 2 dagar sedan
you were asking for it i was 12 in my bedroom asleep.
Welcome Paradise
Welcome Paradise 2 dagar sedan
Ella no sólo habla aquí de la violación...también habla sobre la fibromialgia.
Badjao David
Badjao David 2 dagar sedan
what is the name of the lesbian girl?
Kaaayloo The dinooo
Kaaayloo The dinooo 3 dagar sedan
can someone please give me a roderick time stamp..
Mary Donley
Mary Donley 3 dagar sedan
It’s been a year 5 months and 11 days since it happened to me and people still don’t believe me
Nika Horváthová
Nika Horváthová 2 dagar sedan
I believe you. Sending you a lot of love ❤️
Егор Журилко
Егор Журилко 3 dagar sedan
LOVE YOU GAGA! Icon!
Mishina Iivokuwau
Mishina Iivokuwau 4 dagar sedan
Everything will be fine. Just talk about it more and it'll feel better. My head: I wish it was like that but I'm at war in my head at home and at school and abuse happens at both home and school. Someone help me heal. Someone help all the teens that suffered the same thing I have with a schizophrenic mother at home. Someone help "us" amen.
A
A 4 dagar sedan
i cried im so sorry for those who been through it im so so so sorry
Voided Angel
Voided Angel 4 dagar sedan
i was only 7, i trusted you
Phoenix Clarion
Phoenix Clarion 2 dagar sedan
@Voided Angel And btw........angels aren't voided. It's not possible. You are what you are. Nothing can change that. No abuse, no torment, nothing. And one thing certain is - your enemy in this life knows that and the one thing that drives "them" is fear...........of you. So get yourself healed and get back up on your horse. You have things to do in this life. Cowgirl Up.
Phoenix Clarion
Phoenix Clarion 2 dagar sedan
@Voided Angel Awww! I am so very glad!! You just made my day as well!!! I love loving on you guys, it is my passion in life to do so. Look up EMDR, it's a technique used by therapists that really works, helps alot!! And lonerwolf.com is a great website. I love these two, just adore them. They are brilliant. You my little peep... are going to emerge a butterfly. Do know that when inside the cocoon, the wings only grow because they are constantly beat inside the cocoon to get dry and strong. Resistance to evil afoot. I can see your spirit, I know you without meeting you but I am an intuitive so that's what I do. You just needed a little spark to light you up and so happy to do so. Now go burn brightly! And if you need to talk to me, I am here. Just write something here and I will answer promptly. You have a most beautiful soul, can see it from here. Our abuse doesn't define us. LOL! Oh noooooooo............it changes us but let me tell you something - what grows out of it far stronger and far greater than any of the evil they could do to us. That's a fact. You look at yourself in the mirror, sit for awhile doing so and tell your troubled battered self that - you are going to walk out of this forest in a straight line. No more going around in circles. No more of that. And you let nothing and no one keep you from doing that. YOU are a force to be reckoned with so you go - be that. Take some martial arts maybe, I suggest Akido. Learn how to dance. Understand that your body has housed so much as far as your pain is concerned. See how best to release it and then nurture your body back to health. What goes in must come out so make that path a little easier and have compassion for all that you have locked up. I can give you some self help websites, books, if you like. I have a library of them. So consider yourself very hugged and appreciated because like I said, I see you....... I do. It's time to rewire your brain, get rid of the nasty self talk character in your brain that really isn't you at all. Angry, fearful, blaming little creature. Your life is your castle so throw that thing out on it's ear and be authentic from now on. You hold every thought hostage and throw it up on the wall and say is this me or is it someone else? So what if you end up with an empty room? Then everything you bring into it is authentically yours. Inspected and qualified as "yours", no one else's. Time for you to stand up tall, straight and embrace who you were born to be. Life here is dangerous. Shit happens - to alot of us. We didn't deserve it, nothing like that so we become - Warriors. Much love to you!!
Voided Angel
Voided Angel 2 dagar sedan
@Phoenix Clarion this honestly made my day, I have now started talking about it with people and my counselor. I am still working on my self love but everyday it’s getting better. I hope you are doing good too and I am proud of you for your bravery and your strength.
Phoenix Clarion
Phoenix Clarion 4 dagar sedan
That's the worst part, isn't it....when you trusted that person or loved them? Are you getting help for this now? I hope so..... And when we are little, that part of our brain that reasons and uses logic isn't formed fully yet and won't be until mid 20's so it's hard for a child. Most just automatically think and feel shame and guilt, things the perp won't feel or can't because they have no empathy. But getting things out by talking and journaling is very important because then we can see and hear what's running around in our heads all the time and talk with that part of ourselves. When we are emotionally stunted early in life, we kinda get stuck at that age when it started happening. We might be able to hold down a job and all that but we are not engaging the emotional side so much when doing it. So we have to grow that side of ourselves up. I have known several victims who do just fine in life but when it comes to intrapersonal relationships or their own self image - things are not so good. This is why. Self love is a journey. We don't have to wear what they put on us. I love the saying....Fate whispers to the Warrior - you cannot withstand the storm and the Warrior whispers back - I am the storm. We are stronger than we know but we have to be very gentle with ourselves and our healing. We didn't do this.....they did. People have said to me well, even though it was your father who did this to you, you still have to honor and respect him because he is your father. I laugh! Ummm....noooo, I don't "have to", are you insane? For one, anyone can be a sperm donor and you have to EARN the right to be called a parent by me and you have to EARN my respect. People start out with a little bit of trust from me so that at any time, I might have to take it all back. Be patient with yourself. You are so much more than what happened TO you.
Bdbdbf Dvdjdjd
Bdbdbf Dvdjdjd 4 dagar sedan
I love this song but it’s too hard for me to watch the actual video
Samara Morgan
Samara Morgan 5 dagar sedan
This song really helped me through some shit. I was 5 years old and I had to see that person everyday for 8 more years. This song really helped me understand it's not just me, that it's okay to not be okay and to get help. 💖💖💖
Tshe O
Tshe O 5 dagar sedan
Best song ever i always feel it in my soul, my mom think i forget cause i was a child but no i remember every fcking thing.
Phoenix Clarion
Phoenix Clarion 4 dagar sedan
@Tshe O Trusting is hard after a person does this. There are people who can be trusted but with me it takes time for me to do that. I have to know someone for quite awhile and they earn trust with me a little bit at a time. When I was younger, even after my abuse, I would give too much of my trust out too early. It's like my lever switch on trust was shot. Either I gave too much or wouldn't let anyone in at all. Our radar/intuition thingie we have however - works very well when we use it.Pretty much every time I listen to it, that small voice is spot on. But when I haven't listened to it and overridden it, bad things and choices have happened as a result. I'm glad you make you're own happyness!
Tshe O
Tshe O 4 dagar sedan
@Phoenix Clarion thanks, i try to move on and create my happyness i just can't trust people. Have a good life 😊
Phoenix Clarion
Phoenix Clarion 4 dagar sedan
I always remembered alot, too. Some people do, some people don't. Memories can start surfacing when you are around 30ish, too. I wonder sometimes with myself - how much did I not remember because I was drugged through alot of it. I had many years of it. We need to use our lives now to heal and to make new good memories as well and to try and be "present". Much love to you!
Junko Enoshima
Junko Enoshima 5 dagar sedan
This deserves so much more recognition! I was sexually harassed 6 times in between 3rd - 5th grade. No one helped me when I asked for help. I was never raped, but I know that it hurts people so much. I support every person who is a survivor. You're beautiful! You can do this!
Baby Boo Playz
Baby Boo Playz 5 dagar sedan
I heard A rude SVfromr named Lisa Gaming Roblox added this in one of her videos...
Sara Nikolaisen
Sara Nikolaisen 5 dagar sedan
strong song
Jessica Alexander
Jessica Alexander 5 dagar sedan
“Why didn’t you report?” Because he was my boyfriend and I thought I deserved it. Because I was afraid of retaliation.
Rosey cray
Rosey cray 6 dagar sedan
someone you love relationship you think you are going to be stay in. Does long of horrible things. Break me destroyed me drained the life out of me to the point I didn't know who I was. I now understand that wasn't love that was abuse. I'm getting stronger now he'll never hurt me again. Emotionally, physically or sexaully.
Camille Pelletier
Camille Pelletier 7 dagar sedan
I love this song and I think it's great when artists take a stand. Maybe as a next step or for future videos I think it would be great to include references to more subtle acts of sexual violence. I think there isn't as much representation for acts of violence that aren't specifically rape, and I think including those specifically in the movement would be beneficial. Not all perpetrators recognize themselves in this type of video, and I think explicitly calling out any kind of sexual misconduct would be a step in the right direction
Chloé Gomez
Chloé Gomez 8 dagar sedan
When this came out five years ago I was in a teen treatment program going in and out of all levels of care bouncing back and forth form hospitals back to residential and even a few years after I was out of even outpatient I couldn’t watch this because it was so triggering. I am now able to watch the full thing and it is beyond sad but this is the reality and many people don’t want to accept that sometimes people have issues with men because they don’t want to face the fact that so many men are awful and do things like this to people. However not all men are awful yes many of us know but we are sometimes treated like crazy psycho girlfriends when we try to have relationships in the future when we are trying to move past things. I wouldn’t take in information my therapist was telling me because I was stuck on you don’t know what I’m going through, and some will never understand the pain and only know from textbooks, however many have been through their own therapy. However It is beyond important to let yourself cry and release those emotions even if they are ones we are trying to avoid and numb out.
Karim Naboulsi
Karim Naboulsi 9 dagar sedan
Ces lady gaga chansons sont une remède de tous qui souffrent
Rise above it
Rise above it 9 dagar sedan
😢 TRUTH.
Beth T
Beth T 10 dagar sedan
Reading the comments hurts. Ugh
A1izen
A1izen 10 dagar sedan
คำเมียตำปรู๊ส
Lex i with a heart
Lex i with a heart 10 dagar sedan
My teacher heard me cry in the hall way but id always cry when I was getting bullied so she ignored it ...ig what they called bulling was really called rap
kraze fag
kraze fag 11 dagar sedan
This Music Video deserve to get a 100M Views on SVfrom
Immortal Star Haven
Immortal Star Haven 11 dagar sedan
💋💋💋💋
Min Min
Min Min 11 dagar sedan
Hay qua trời mà ít sao có cả dislike thế
Marr Lance
Marr Lance 11 dagar sedan
MY CLOTHES DOES NOT GIVE THE RIGHT TO TOUCH ME, NOTHING GIVES THE RIGHT TO TOUCH ME
selenesaudios
selenesaudios 11 dagar sedan
sorry for my bad english im 15. im sitting here. im going to try to kill myself taking drugs. my life isnt normal. my thoughts arent the normal teenager thoughts. the person that abused me is now sitting in the living room with my parents. he greeted me a few minutes ago kissing my cheek. my parents know nothing, they have always known him and would never expect it. I was 13, not fully aware of what was going on. i hate him. he made my life an hell. and i dont want to see his face anymore. i dont want to live this life anymore. im so sorry for this. maybe i love life, but definitely not mine.
Nika Horváthová
Nika Horváthová 11 dagar sedan
@selenesaudios Im sorry. I have no words ... I just want you to know that it was not your fault, that you are worthy of love and life, and I'm here for you if you want to talk privately.
selenesaudios
selenesaudios 11 dagar sedan
Nika Horváthová no :,)
Nika Horváthová
Nika Horváthová 11 dagar sedan
Hey.... Are you okay? 😔
Sabrina Alvarez
Sabrina Alvarez 12 dagar sedan
When I hear this song the hair on my body stand up. Maybe it's not my favorite song but it means a lot to me, it expresses exactly how we feel. Unfortunately in the world there are many victims and that squeezes my heart. It is something that change us but I am really happy to be alive.
No other Like my own skin
No other Like my own skin 12 dagar sedan
Can you make song with Lady Gaga? With Jeffery Star Main Singer Lady Gaga ft Jeffery Star "On your life style". Lady Gaga svfrom.info/history/video/ZZuho6PY2dakl7I
something about bacon
something about bacon 13 dagar sedan
The dislikes definetly don't know how it feels
something about bacon
something about bacon 13 dagar sedan
I haven't told too much people bc I thought it wasn't big deal and that HE made a mistake bc HE took me for a girl so everything was a misunderstood
Assassin Scorpio
Assassin Scorpio 13 dagar sedan
This reminds me of how when my grandma and I were talking about what my brother did to me (he had to stay with her) she tried to convince me that I should forgive him because it wasn't his fault it was my parents' fault somehow. She said maybe if I had fought back or said no than it wouldn't have happened. I was so young and scared, why was she blaming an 11 year old?? Thanks Grandma for all the support I got... This also reminds me of how my dad didn't believe my sister about his friend molesting her because she waited until the next morning to tell my mom.
Abby Brock
Abby Brock 14 dagar sedan
dear mom. when i told you he touched me you yelled at me and acted like you cared but you didn’t. you did nothing. now he got away with what he did and i can’t get the image of him pinning me down out of my head. and you let him GET AWAY WITH NO PUNISHMENT. WHY . now i’m stuck with this.
Prachi saini
Prachi saini 14 dagar sedan
I am sorry sister, it will go away ask for help please!
Im like two Mentally
Im like two Mentally 14 dagar sedan
This hit really hard, I’m a trans man who went through this it started when I was 11 officially happened when I was 12 and ended at 13, I still try to make it sound not as bad as it is/was. I’m 14 now. I’ve never told anyone the full story.
Prachi saini
Prachi saini 14 dagar sedan
I am cheering for you!
Prachi saini
Prachi saini 14 dagar sedan
That's why you need ask help and out of that phase. You will be okay.
Prachi saini
Prachi saini 14 dagar sedan
And it's not always it was not that bad or not intense it was traumatic and that's enough your boundaries were broken.
Prachi saini
Prachi saini 14 dagar sedan
@Im like two Mentally you can do it! I am there helpful people are there for you, trying telling someone even a friend and please try to get help.
Im like two Mentally
Im like two Mentally 14 dagar sedan
Prachi saini im trying but I grew up in a abusive household were I was taught not to, it’s hard but I’m doing my best!
DanLeigh Gartman
DanLeigh Gartman 14 dagar sedan
Why didn't you tell your mom right away Because he was my step dad and because I thought it was my fault
Prachi saini
Prachi saini 15 dagar sedan
Wish I reported first how could i do they were my classmates and surrvent and senior. now I am in theropy and it' doesn't help much. Help! Please
Prachi saini
Prachi saini 14 dagar sedan
@Nika Horváthová I will, thanks
Nika Horváthová
Nika Horváthová 14 dagar sedan
@Prachi saini that's okay. Stay strong ❤️
Prachi saini
Prachi saini 14 dagar sedan
You are a nice person but sue to some circumstances I can not talk wish but I can not.
Prachi saini
Prachi saini 14 dagar sedan
@Nika Horváthová where?? I am not sure
Nika Horváthová
Nika Horváthová 14 dagar sedan
@Prachi saini 😊 do you want to talk privately? Feel free to refuse.
Ella
Ella 15 dagar sedan
“Why didn’t you report it” Because I was 4 and didn’t have the words. “Why didn’t you report it” Because I wouldn’t be believed because “mothers don’t let their daughters get abused for money”
Ella
Ella 5 dagar sedan
@Sara Jalbert no nobody helped me I’m now in my 30’s and still suffer every day I had two children to one of my abusers and I now live alone with them I’ve got no family and I can’t make friends. I’m very isolated but I’m also lucky I’m alive and have two children that I raised alone, they are fantastic and my reason to live x
Sara Jalbert
Sara Jalbert 14 dagar sedan
this is so sad. i have no words. how are you doing today? did someone protected you after that or at some point?
Ella
Ella 15 dagar sedan
I know how it feels..
Prachi saini
Prachi saini 5 dagar sedan
@Ella I am sorry for you too, stay strong.
Prachi saini
Prachi saini 5 dagar sedan
@Ella thanks got them :-)they are nice and warm
Ella
Ella 5 dagar sedan
@Prachi saini I’m so sorry you “know” too :( sending big hugs x
Ella
Ella 5 dagar sedan
@Nika Horváthová thank you that’s so kind of you
Prachi saini
Prachi saini 15 dagar sedan
@Nika Horváthová thanks,you are really nice person
M. Morgan Way
M. Morgan Way 16 dagar sedan
it is so heart breaking, it´s a devastating amount of women. We women have to be together and support each other. Every person has to warm their heart and be against abuse and stop blaming victims, no matter who they are.
W KO
W KO 16 dagar sedan
💔💔💔 too true... you won't know. The injustice eats away a little each day.
Yaman Pangkam
Yaman Pangkam 17 dagar sedan
I had faced many hard and bad situations in my life. There came a point where I was lonely and helpless. There was no one with whom I can share my problems . My family members never understood me even though they love me so much. I almost fell into depression that I wanted to commit suicide. I felt so worthless. I thought there is no point of living in this world. I used to cry every whole nights . But one day all of a sudden, a friend of mine sent me a video. Which in some way gave me a message that even if you forget God ,He never forgets you and He still loves you and is with you. I suddenly burst into tears and I kneeled down and prayed pouring out my whole sufferings to God. As lord Jesus says " give all your worries to me because I care for you". From that onward I begin to experience new life, a life worthy of living. I realized my worth is not in my body but it is in Christ who lives in me. As lord says" behold old things passed and new things come". Today I'm able to face that man who is a distant brother of mine who took away my childhood and I said to him " I forgive you". Sometimes when I see him coming to my house ,my heart burns with hatred and sadness. But there is always the spirit of lord telling me inside " let there be peace in your heart for I'm with you . For I see everything and one day every mankind have to give account of their sins. But just I forgave you , you must forgive him." And I really did forgave him. My heart is at peace now. My depression is leaving me as I always kneel down to pray to God to comfort me. Lord I pray for all my brothers and sisters who are suffering to comfort them and to give them your peace . I know the world is full of suffering but your presence will always encourage your children to live on. Bless my dearest brothers and sisters lord.
PRAGYA MUNSHI
PRAGYA MUNSHI 17 dagar sedan
Why didn't you report it? Because I was 5 years old
The Beds
The Beds 17 dagar sedan
"Why didn't you report" Because she would tell the whole school my secrets
Jen Alexa
Jen Alexa 17 dagar sedan
I'm only 15... But this is an eye opener that no matter what's your gender, or sexual identity as a woman - you will still experience this kind of crime... And it hurts. This makes me realize that I need to be careful - not just me, but everyone because people in the outside world don't have good intentions.. This song is deep. I keep listening to this on Spotify for some time now but only watched the MV now
Josefin Högberg
Josefin Högberg 17 dagar sedan
It is a fantastic song! Very sad lyrics if you listen, but it makes me heal a bit more everything I listen to it. Many people don't know how it all feels to all of us. Love you lady gaga, you inspire me❤
Aj Loomis
Aj Loomis 17 dagar sedan
this made me cry.... thank you for making this song
Hannah R
Hannah R 17 dagar sedan
after 5 years of hell, I am finaly taking them to court. I want my comp. No amount of money will ever be enough but to have that hammer come down on them instead of me is the dream I am living for
Lisa Prado
Lisa Prado 17 dagar sedan
I was sexually assaulted when I told no one believed me I reported it to my school's vice principal and the guy tried to say I did it at the time everyone knew I was part of the lgbgtq community and believed him and I just felt ashamed of myself ever since that happened thinking it was my fault
Nika Horváthová
Nika Horváthová 17 dagar sedan
I believe you. I'm very sorry for what you had to go through. It's not your fault. Stay strong. Sending you a lot of love 💞
Borbély Dénes
Borbély Dénes 17 dagar sedan
i just found my comment here from one year ago when i said it made me cry. i did not remember commenting that, but it made me cry again. this is the most meaningful and important video i’ve ever seen. thank you gaga.
Jones Family
Jones Family 18 dagar sedan
When I was in college, a group of us went to a bar to listen to some live music. We lived in a small, homey, dorm and became very close friends. We took care of each other, and always made sure we were safe. This was 1982. The bar was small and most of us knew each other. We were all there for the music and no one was drinking excessively. Some of us left early, leaving one of our friends behind. She wasn’t drinking, was enjoying the music, and had other friends there that had a car to drive her home. Back at the dorm, it was getting later and later, and she didn’t come home. We weren’t TOO worried. We left her with friends. Remember, we didn’t have cell phones and barely had any phone communication because we lived in a dorm. Morning came, and she still wasn’t home. Finally, someone called the bar and amazingly, someone answered. (They weren’t open yet.) Our friend was still there. The bar employee found her outside near their dumpster. Her pants were no where and her underwear were around her ankles. She could remember nothing of that night. She refused to go to the hospital or the police. She was embarrassed because she had no idea what happened. We know for a fact that she did not get drunk or take any drugs herself. We think someone put something in her drink. All she wanted to do was to have a fun time, listening to some music. I lost touch with her over the years, but I’ve never stopped thinking about her. I also never stopped thinking about the monster or monsters who did that to her. Everyone there was a ‘friend.’
Soe Moe
Soe Moe 18 dagar sedan
Reading comments sections make me teary...
Gloria Nazareth
Gloria Nazareth 18 dagar sedan
A Huge hug and lots of support to all of you, men and women, opening up. That is beautiful. You are so brave.
Jessie Chan
Jessie Chan 18 dagar sedan
"Omg why can't you just report it and be open with it?!?!" .....because this person is a family member who I still see often and my family tells me to stay quiet about it. And yes, I was a freaking small child when it happened and it went on for a long ass time.
Paigeo
Paigeo 18 dagar sedan
“Why didn’t u report it?” I was 7 and my older brother watched it happen and did nothing...
kraze fag
kraze fag 18 dagar sedan
Road to 50M Views
Steven Sheef
Steven Sheef 19 dagar sedan
One of my evil flat mates from student halls sexually assaulted two people. He of course got away with it because the justice system lets the victims down, but when his dad came to help him pack I put this song on loop at full volume and locked my room, then went off to work. It was not something I planned. His dad looked like a ghost when I saw him take the final item to the car.
Prachi saini
Prachi saini 15 dagar sedan
You did great thing that guy must listen to this song. They should know how we feel
Солнечный Тортик
Солнечный Тортик 20 dagar sedan
Can’t stop crying while reading the comment section. I am so sorry that it happened to you. Praying for your harmony and health. Hope you all are very happy now!
Eliseo Corona
Eliseo Corona 20 dagar sedan
I love you. I really do. I mean it with every fiber of my being, up to a point of desperation because I need you to see how incredibly valuable you are. How beautiful your spirit and mind are. How amazingly strong you are for coming this way and not giving up. I need you to believe me when I say that you have a lot to offer this world. I know it's hard to fight all the voices in your head telling you everything you're not, but you have to remind yourself that you are valid just the way YOU ARE. You have to see that you aren't dirty, or stupid, or weak, or ugly, or worthless. Bad things happen to good people, but your events don't define you. You're baggage doesn't define where you're going. And I know in my heart that you'll get somewhere. You'll get THERE--right where you want to be. And I really really really hope you just give yourself the time, patience, and fortitude to make it happen. Until then, I'll hope this message lends you support. Support and love. All the love my heart can muster going straight to you.
Bright And Woke
Bright And Woke 21 dag sedan
I really think it’s important , to know sexual assault isn’t your fault and for everyone to be educated or not whether they’ve been through it or not , I have a video talking about this on my channel , please please check it out , I wish to spread awareness to a significant topic
RQ.Awkward
RQ.Awkward 21 dag sedan
I was six how could anyone do that to someone so young
Nenen Silva
Nenen Silva 21 dag sedan
Lady minha idola não minha cantora favorita que sensibilidade que resposta para o mundo por essa causa do estupro. Só quem passou por isso sabe o que sente. A mensagem que vc passou para o mundo é muito forte. O telefone no final eu sei que é dos estados unidos. Mas a mensagem foi clara no inconsciente das pessoas. Denuncie se vc foi vítima de estupro. Procure a lei do seu pais. Seja forte. Te amo❤️ sempre minha cantora favorita.
Kayla Jacob
Kayla Jacob 22 dagar sedan
Why didn't you report it? I tried the cops blew me off they told me it could take years to be seen in court and bc the guy was mexican he was probably illegal and even IF he was convicted he'd just be deported and be back in 6 months that's what a police officer told me on top of how I'd be tore apart on the stand, And he wanted to be sure that i was all in on it. I had to go through a Rape kit with a MALE dr. they wouldn't get me a female and then NEVER sent it off, i was told they weren't going to unless i was SURE i really wanted to go through with it.. A rape consoler even said you couldn't have faked that trauma, that cop made me feel like i was nothing and i walked out, I get home everyone now knows and i'm asked Why didn't you report it as i'm curled up in my bed sobbing, i tell them what the cops said and that it just showed they didn't believe me. Then i was looked straight in the face and told that maybe it was consensual by someone who meant the world to me and my Bf at the time constantly called me a whore and told everyone around how i cheated on him, and anytime his friends seen me they would bluntly talk about it. Anytime my family talks about it TO THIS DAY 11 years later i'm told i shouldn't have put myself in that situation. (Going a place that everyone my age was going too) I was so Mentally and Emotionally fucked up. I couldn't sleep with out reliving it, i was the one in the wrong though. I wanted to kill myself and if i hadn't found out i was pregnant (by my bf at the time) i would have. I was Labeled as a Whore when i had only been with 1 guy. All because someone raped me. So you tell me Why does rapes go unreported? I regret every telling anyone.
Ashley Lily
Ashley Lily 22 dagar sedan
My cousin was killed i was blackmail and groomed by 2 different people I just want to be happy in life for once
Ashley Lily
Ashley Lily 17 dagar sedan
@Chinmayee Jeyapriya you're very sweet but I'm alot older than you and I don't feel comfortable talking about what I been through with a someone really young but don't loss that since of kindness to help someone you may save someone life
Chinmayee Jeyapriya
Chinmayee Jeyapriya 19 dagar sedan
@Ashley Lily that's okay! im right here if you need to talk, and i will support you no matter what you choose. i don't know why, but i visit this comment section every day, there's always people that want to feel loved. simce im only 13 i can't help much other than being there for people.
Ashley Lily
Ashley Lily 19 dagar sedan
@Chinmayee Jeyapriya America i don't feel comfortable telling the State
Chinmayee Jeyapriya
Chinmayee Jeyapriya 22 dagar sedan
I'm so sorry!! What country do you live in?
Celine Star
Celine Star 22 dagar sedan
Underrated song 😭😭😭😭😭 they don't know how it feel for sure
Chinmayee Jeyapriya
Chinmayee Jeyapriya 22 dagar sedan
I don't know how it feels but I'm so sorry ❤️
Edgar Francisco
Edgar Francisco 22 dagar sedan
"why did'nt you looked sad or didn't see you cry?" cuz I was in shock and felt ashame of my self bealiving everything was my fault.
Lacey Lawrence
Lacey Lawrence 22 dagar sedan
“Why didn’t you tell anyone?” Who listens to what a 5 year old says about what her step brother did?
Lacey Lawrence
Lacey Lawrence 17 dagar sedan
Chinmayee Jeyapriya, you fighting for others is what keeps this messed up world turning. Because there is people like you, who fights and install hope in others lives,people like me who has been through sexual assault and other terrible stuff, have a will to live and a reason to fight. Keep fighting and helping others. What your doing is making a difference. 💜😊
Chinmayee Jeyapriya
Chinmayee Jeyapriya 17 dagar sedan
@Lacey Lawrence i am not a surviver, and im only 13 but i swear i will fight for you. and others. for now, that just means coming to this comment section and attempting to install hope, but eventually I promise i'll be making a bigger change. my friends all think s/a isn't serious and my family doesn't have feelings about it, but i watched the hunting ground when i was 8 and i realized how fucked up it is. you deserve the world ♥️
Lacey Lawrence
Lacey Lawrence 22 dagar sedan
Chinmayee Jeyapriya, thank you. 😊
Chinmayee Jeyapriya
Chinmayee Jeyapriya 22 dagar sedan
@Lacey Lawrence I'm happy for you ♥️
Lacey Lawrence
Lacey Lawrence 22 dagar sedan
Chinmayee Jeyapriya. Thank you So much. I’m a lot older now and it doesn’t bother me any more. I have people by me that won’t hurt me and I got adopted so I’m away from all the hell. I just wish that the others are happy too and what happened to them doesn’t take control over their lives.
Adam Robinson
Adam Robinson 23 dagar sedan
i have been raped 13 time i been in foster care for three year during that i been abuse i tried to kill myself 26 time and i dont know what to do
Adam Robinson
Adam Robinson 22 dagar sedan
@Chinmayee Jeyapriya the USA im in Missouri
Chinmayee Jeyapriya
Chinmayee Jeyapriya 22 dagar sedan
Whicn country do you live in? I'm so sorry, you don't deserve any of this bullshit.
mack pasco
mack pasco 23 dagar sedan
I have never cried harder at a song. I finally told my mom. She is sending me to talk to someone.
mack pasco
mack pasco 7 dagar sedan
@Chinmayee Jeyapriya thank you so so much
mack pasco
mack pasco 7 dagar sedan
@UwU nation Thank you so so much
Chinmayee Jeyapriya
Chinmayee Jeyapriya 22 dagar sedan
I'm so proud of you sweetie ♥️
UwU nation
UwU nation 23 dagar sedan
Para Dice
Para Dice 23 dagar sedan
20k people don’t know how it feels
Chinmayee Jeyapriya
Chinmayee Jeyapriya 22 dagar sedan
I don't know how it feels but I promise I'm right by your side and I will fight for you.
Para Dice
Para Dice 23 dagar sedan
Thank you lady Gaga! Oh my god I’m speechless. I do know how it feels! And it’s the worst thing ever to happen.
Annie Paulsen
Annie Paulsen 23 dagar sedan
Dear ex its not ok to do that to someone that's asleep
Annie Paulsen
Annie Paulsen 23 dagar sedan
"What were you wearing" baggy clothes because I had already been harassed by my dad at age 2
Annie Paulsen
Annie Paulsen 19 dagar sedan
Its okay
Chinmayee Jeyapriya
Chinmayee Jeyapriya 22 dagar sedan
I'm so fucking sorry.
Paula Nariño
Paula Nariño 23 dagar sedan
Why didn't you stop him? Because I was drunk😔 the next day I thought that I deserve it, it was my fault for believe at the wrong people and put myself in dangerous. Just was dancing and have fun with my "friends" at the club 😔 yes I deserved it
Chinmayee Jeyapriya
Chinmayee Jeyapriya 22 dagar sedan
I don't know how it feels but I promise I'm right by your side and I will fight for you. It was not your fault. Sending endless amounts of love.
Nika Horváthová
Nika Horváthová 22 dagar sedan
@Paula Nariño it will get better. I promise. Sending you lot of love! ❤️
Paula Nariño
Paula Nariño 22 dagar sedan
@Nika Horváthová Thank you every day I fight with myself trying to accept and I can't sleep thinking about what I could have done then, and people give me encouragement and in the end I think the one who should have stopped was him. But is circle and my thoughts coming in all the time 😭 thanks for your words take care yourself😍
Nika Horváthová
Nika Horváthová 22 dagar sedan
Listen to me. IT WASN'T YOUR FAULT. It doesn't matter how you were dressed, where you were, or how you behaved. It is never the survivor's fault. Only person/people who hurted you. And I'm proud of you.
Trista Williamson
Trista Williamson 23 dagar sedan
I was 10 when my sisters boyfriend first started, he blackmailed me... and it went on for 2 years... I hadn't even lost my virginity yet. He took away my happiness.. my innocence. I didn't even smoke... He got away with no charges because of what I was wearing... My mom didn't believe me, my dad and sisters and nobody else did... I'm now 13 and she has been with him almost 5 years now.. she lives with him.. they are trying to have a baby together... He admitted everything to her, and she didn't care, her own little sister. She chose her boyfriend instead... I'm now 13 and still crying to this day after attempting suicide over 10 times 5 mental hospitals almost a year of therapy. I watched a good few of my friends take their lives right infront of me.. the one time I had the balls I pulled the trigger and all it did was click. I want my family back... I became homeless and got on drugs. But I am now clean and thriving in a healthy relationship. I still think about it... I still cry and think about how things could have been different.. but I will be okay. I have made it this long and I will live the rest of my life the best way possible. And to my sister if you are reading this, I miss you, but you knew he was doing that stuff and cheating on you with different girls and everything. You knew. And you didn't care. Fuck you and your boyfriend for making me this way. I hope you have a beautiful wedding and beautiful children. And I hope I never see your face again. To whomever took the time to read this, Thank you for listening to my story.
Trista Williamson
Trista Williamson 12 dagar sedan
@Chinmayee Jeyapriya Thank you it means alot❤
Trista Williamson
Trista Williamson 12 dagar sedan
@Nika Horváthová Thank you. It means alot❤
Chinmayee Jeyapriya
Chinmayee Jeyapriya 22 dagar sedan
I don't know how it feels but I promise I'm right by your side and I will fight for you.
Nika Horváthová
Nika Horváthová 22 dagar sedan
Proud of you. You are a great person and you are worthy of love. It wasn't your fault. You are very strong.
Jakes Farm
Jakes Farm 23 dagar sedan
I dont know what to do.... my girlfriend as well as maybe 10 girls in her grade were were touched by 2 students.... 8th fucking grade.... and the counselors and principles havent done anything about it. They've said "I'll help you on that" and just left them..... help, I dont want their lives to be ruined more...
Chinmayee Jeyapriya
Chinmayee Jeyapriya 22 dagar sedan
What country do you live in?
UwU nation
UwU nation 23 dagar sedan
do you think there's any way the police might help? do parents know what's going on?
AAASERO Be honest
AAASERO Be honest 23 dagar sedan
A heart for the beautiful Lady Gaga. ❤️
Esmeralda Villarreal
Esmeralda Villarreal 24 dagar sedan
“why don’t you report it” because i know you will get mad at me and not him. I’m afraid of what might happen. I rather cry about it
Chinmayee Jeyapriya
Chinmayee Jeyapriya 22 dagar sedan
I don't know how it feels but I promise I'm right by your side and I will fight for you. What country do you live in?
cassie norman
cassie norman 24 dagar sedan
You push all the boundaries and you don't care if you are judged. That's what I love about you.
Ariel's MadHaus
Ariel's MadHaus 24 dagar sedan
This song got me to realize how strong I really am. Been through sexual abuse, rape, physical abuse, and emotional abuse. I used to beat myself up all the time for what I gone through, choices I made that got me in those predicaments; I chose drug abuse, and alcoholism to cope, only to follow the same cycle again. I have contemplated suicide, have asked people if I could "borrow" their guns, for "hunting" purposes or "practice" when in reality, pulling the trigger on myself sounded like a dream to the nightmare I was living. When Gaga came out with this song, it took me a year to even want to listen to it. When I finally did, I cried, because for once, I felt understood, I felt like I could open up, I felt like I could breathe again. Recovery from abuse, drug use, alcoholism, torment never gets any easier, but I realized I became stronger, mentally stronger. My husband knows I'm not easy to deal with, he knows my outbursts, knows, when I'm in that dark place, I'm not me. He understands why I'm not affectionate, but he still lets me know he loves me. Always will. When I say Lady Gaga saved my life, I really mean it. This song alone saved my life. If I ever had a chance to meet you, the first words to her I would say is Thank you for giving me a second chance of life. To Stephanie G. Thank you.
Chinmayee Jeyapriya
Chinmayee Jeyapriya 22 dagar sedan
You're so fucking strong.
Lilith Torres
Lilith Torres 24 dagar sedan
Ganhadora moral do Oscar
Kasai
Kasai 24 dagar sedan
"Why didn't you report it?" I did but my own mother told me to shut up because of her relationship. The brother of my stepfather rapped me three times then he died. I was happy about it and get slapped by my stepfather who also knows that his brother rapped me. Now five years later I still fear man and want to kill myself because no one helped me. My mother hate me and say that I just lie to get attention. I wish that everything was a lie but it's not and I can't handle it.
UwU nation
UwU nation 23 dagar sedan
i can't promise you things will get better, but what i can tell you is that you made it this far and i am so proud of you for that
Kasai
Kasai 24 dagar sedan
@Chinmayee Jeyapriya Thank you
Chinmayee Jeyapriya
Chinmayee Jeyapriya 24 dagar sedan
please stay alive. even if it’s just for me ❤️
GLM 5983
GLM 5983 24 dagar sedan
after 7,5 years this stil is the song that helps me going on. my rape whas 44 years a go when i was 6 years old. i was a boy. I was in the hospital and he was a nurs. I never talkt aboud it til i snapt 7,5 years a go as a police officerr nou i have a massive Ptsd and depression and i finaly spoke about my rape
Nika Horváthová
Nika Horváthová 20 dagar sedan
@GLM 5983 if you want to talk privately feel free to contact me. It's up to you. Once again sending you a lot of love ❤️
GLM 5983
GLM 5983 20 dagar sedan
@Nika Horváthová you realy help me
Nika Horváthová
Nika Horváthová 21 dag sedan
@GLM 5983 you are welcome sweetie ❤️ sending you a lot of love
GLM 5983
GLM 5983 21 dag sedan
@Nika Horváthová thank you
Nika Horváthová
Nika Horváthová 21 dag sedan
I'm so sorry. I'm proud of you.
June
June 25 dagar sedan
Why didn't you report him? Well I was young and my family new plus he was my cousin and my family let it happened they said it was my fault and thought I would forget it but it happened for years and now all I have to give is my body😔
Miss Ace
Miss Ace 25 dagar sedan
“Why didn’t you say anything about it when it happened?” Because he was my best friend and I didn’t want to believe he could hurt me
JC Andrade
JC Andrade 25 dagar sedan
"Por que você não denunciou?" eu era pequeno, perdi a confiança dos meus pais por colocarem medo em mim e sempre sentir como se fosse um erro a minha existencia, é dificil saber em quem confiar
SpicySillyDino :
SpicySillyDino : 26 dagar sedan
“ Why didn’t you report it? “ Because he was my best friend at the time and it wasn’t “ as bad “ so nothing could be done
M'ladybug
M'ladybug 26 dagar sedan
I see a lot of people telling my story here so why not tell mine? Ya see, I scrolled through the comment a lot of them said they didn't report because it was their boyfriend, or that nobody believed them. But have you seen anyone not report because they were ashamed it was done by someone younger than them? *Story of my life*. Let me further explain. Basically the boy was younger than me by like a year, I was starting to trust him. Then we sit down to watch some TV. After sitting next to him, he proceeds to sneak his hand up my shirt. Then he- uh well, this part is gonna be weird for me to type but whatever- So while he was doing - sOmEtHiNg - underneath my shirt, he, well, he rubbed that area. No no, I mean a DIFFERENT area, not under my shirt. ... The worse part is that I saw him a few months ago, when I went with a family friend to the beach. (Their friends with the family friends). And of course we went in the water. Soon it started to get rough - like it would flip you over rough - and i got flipped over many times. One time though I got flipped over and he wouldn't stop staring at me. So obviously I go like "What is it?" and he responds with "Pull it up." Half of my bathing suit had fell down, showing a private pArT. So yea, that sucked.
Addyson Reeves
Addyson Reeves 26 dagar sedan
“What were you wearing” A shirt and jeans..
Danielle Bennis
Danielle Bennis 27 dagar sedan
My heart goes out to anyone that is a victim
natalia rodrigues
natalia rodrigues 27 dagar sedan
"Girls who come in and report this type of thing are usually distraught and in tears, you seem fine" " You just wanted attention" "Why didn't you run or scream" "You wanted it" " It doesn't make sense he's a good guy"' " Your lying" " We don't believe you" It first began when I was 8 I didn't really understand what was happening however as I got older it got worse and I realized this wasn't right. I tired to speak up about it but no body believed me not my friends not my family. They all my my life a living hell too. In the end I just agreed with them and told them it was all lie, even though it wasn't, at the time I just didn't see the point in fighting anymore. I regret that everyday now, even if people don't believe you never stop fighting and try to get help, if you don't it will result in so much pain, well more pain.
Chinmayee Jeyapriya
Chinmayee Jeyapriya 26 dagar sedan
I believe you, and when I grow up, I want to make a change in this world. For you. For every person that's been harassed and assaulted.
Nika Horváthová
Nika Horváthová 27 dagar sedan
I believe you. I'm very sorry about what happened to you. No one should go through something like that. I have similar experiences, I know exactly how you feel. Please don't give up and stay strong ❤️ Feel free to contact me if you want to talk privately.
Chinmayee Jeyapriya
Chinmayee Jeyapriya 27 dagar sedan
im 13. i shouldnt be scared of going in public. nothing has even happened to me. but im terrified reading these stories.
Phoenix Clarion
Phoenix Clarion 28 dagar sedan
I'm going to try this again because I posted before it got deleted....not sure why, nothing bad about it. But I'm used to that one talking about "this" subject. Love you Lady Gaga for doing this one! I was a victim of abuse for 18 years of my life so I get it. And have spent the rest of my life counseling abuse victims. Most of them wouldn't even talk to someone who hadn't been there. Never took money for it. Just needed doing. Educated myself, used my experiences. Thing is - one of the biggest human needs we have is "to be known by someone". So we search for that, sometimes in the wrong places, sometimes because a template has been laid down in our brain by prior abusers so we are vulnerable to that particular persona and go right for it because we want to win - the old war. We want to "fix" it but it was never something we needed to fix in the first place. We take on the guilt and the shame that psychopaths won't and can't do. Their brain isn't wired like that. They have no empathy. Nothing will fix that. Maybe some day....... What I do know and have experienced and witnessed is that - wounded warriors are some of the most special and gifted people on this planet. The grafted branch is the strongest part of the tree, remember that one? It's true. I have my scars, my wounds and all that but because of that, it allows me to go back into the battlefield and find the wounded. No one else knows that terrain except for those who have been there. I really like this lady....svfrom.info/history/video/ca9-mn2X2LN8qao&ab_channel=DarknesstoLight I have the honor and the privilege of coming alongside some of the most beautiful wonderful human beings who have been brought so near to death that it's a miracle they even survived and yet they did. Not only that but they let loose a huge light that was in them from the beginning and basically said NOO, you seriously won't snuff this out because I will shine anyways! And so they did and still do. For every deep wound that I have, a gift or greater sense has grown from it. I am very intuitive, am an empath and who knows if I was born with it or the abuse made it happen? I don't know. At any rate, my wounded warriors, please don't think that everything is over for you or that your life isn't valuable because it sooo is. Eh, we're a little jaded, we walk with a limp, but trust me when I say - the strength that bubbles up manifests itself in other ways so I might limp but there are other parts of me that are very very strong. Much love to anyone reading and power up that light in you. Fate whispers to the warrior, you cannot withstand the storm. The warrior whispers back - I am the storm. Please don't ever forget that. It is the one small candle that lights up a room. A fist full of darkness opened in a lit room - does what? Know your power. Use it. XXX
Alicia Hoverson
Alicia Hoverson 28 dagar sedan
❤❤❤❤❤❤😣😣😪😪
ali ali
ali ali 28 dagar sedan
wish i could share my story😥
Chinmayee Jeyapriya
Chinmayee Jeyapriya 22 dagar sedan
I don't know how it feels but I promise I'm right by your side and I will fight for you.
Nika Horváthová
Nika Horváthová 26 dagar sedan
@ali ali you are welcome. Feel free to contact me if you want to talk privately.
ali ali
ali ali 26 dagar sedan
@Nika Horváthová ty so much it feels better to know they r still nice ppl in the world
Nika Horváthová
Nika Horváthová 27 dagar sedan
Hi, I understand you. There is a safe space here in the comments, you can tell your story here without fear of condemnation. Just remember you're not alone in that 💞
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